In the age of Internet porn, teaching boys to be good men

What is a nymphomaniac? And is it okay to have a relationship with them?

Is it wrong or weird to think of someone else while having sex with someone?

Why is it okay for guys to have multiple sex partners but not girls?

Is it okay to masturbate five times a day?

Deep questions – at least if you consider they’re being asked by 14- and 15-year-old boys.

In Blake Spence’s class, no topic is off-limits, especially when a boy has dropped it anonymously into the “question box.” Mr. Spence, 28, co-ordinates the WiseGuyz Program, now on offer to Grade 9 boys in two Calgary high schools. In 14 two-hour sessions offered once a week, the guys talk – yes, talk, without girls in the room – about everything from reproductive anatomy, sexually transmitted infections and birth control to relationships, values and the media.

WiseGuyz, run by the Calgary Sexual Health Centre (which gave Mr. Spence his training), isn’t just sex ed with an update. It’s part of a new wave of initiatives to intervene in a young, male culture that is giving many adults cause for concern. Long-term, the aim is to combat the rates of domestic violence and sexually transmitted infections. Short-term, the goal is to tutor young men in healthy relations with women and non-destructive masculinity.

Read the whole story in The Globe and Mail.

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